Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Holy Water

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is what my 2 year old was screaming at the top of his lungs as I carried him out of Church last Sunday.
Kicking and hollering like a wild stallion caught to be tamed, he gave it his all.
Children are the best at squirming when agitated.
Oh he floundered, back and forth, throwing his head in every direction;
but this momma held on to her little fish as he cried ALL THE WAY to the car.

Two year olds are highly emotional creatures. And "Toddler Whisperer" is NOT on my resume.

I gave him more than one chance to dip his little hand in the holy water font.
As stubborn as could be, he sat himself down on the floor at the entrance to the Church
and proceeded to tell me, "NO! NO HOLY WATER."

I have no idea where he gets that behavior. Cough. Cough.

I even tried to HELP him bless himself... but NO. He wasn't having it.

He said "NO" - so I said, "Let's go." The tempter-tantrum began.
That's when the eyes of the audience started burning in my direction.
I know. That's dramatic. But it sure did feel that way.

To top it all off, my key chain broke loose just as we were about to break
free of the Church and I had to stop and pick up all the pieces... with the wild stallion.
Still kicking. Still screaming.

I was mortified. Embarrassed. Frustrated. Angry.

I couldn't make eye contact with anyone. I just moved through the parking lot
hoping to avoid getting hit by moving traffic. I figured people wouldn't be able to
miss seeing the woman with the flailing boy crying out for HOOOOOOOLY WAAAAAAATER!

Relief. We reached our car.
I literally just sat there taking deep breaths as my little fish finally calmed down.

"Why, did you act like that, buddy?"

"I want HOLY WATER," he said between sobs.

How often do I act like this before God?
Yes, I want this. No, I don't. Yes, I do.
But I want it MY way. And if it is NOT my way... then forget it.
I don't want it. Yes, I do.

Do I flounder before God - as a wishy-washy little fish?
Or am I totally in?

I know there are MANY times God has carried ME around, kicking and screaming.
Help me to be patient with my children as YOU are patient with me, Father.

When God asks me if I want something I want to answer with a fully abandoned heart
and open arms. What do YOU want for me? Let me do YOUR will, Father.

And I think next time we go to church I just may take a dip in the holy water fountain
with my two year old for good measure. Lots of graces floating around in that sacramental.
We need those in these parts!

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  1. I can totally picture this! You are very right though. I'm sure we look just as silly taking God on a wild goose chase, attempting to steer Him in what we think to be the best direction. Two year olds, I'm sure, just make this process a little clearer and humbling. Silver lining: at least your boy is upset about holy water (something appropriate for mass)...I took Annabelle to mass yesterday while I was babysitting her. When we sat down for the homily she thought that was a goodtime to watch The little Mermaid on my iPhone. I made the mistake of leaving my phone in plain view (out of site, out of mind). Then when I told her "we're here to see Jesus, not mermaid", she found that to be the perfect time to scream "MERMAID, MERMAID, MERMAID" at the top of her lungs. Needless to say, we took a trip to the vestibule. I can only imagine the humbling moments God will bless me with one day if I ever have children of my own!

    1. Wow you are up early, Stacey! This made me smile! Life with little ones is always an adventure. Annabelle is lucky to have such a holy nanny - taking her to Church!!! I hope God blesses you with many children - you will make a WONDERFUL momma!!! XO

  2. oh yes, i've thrown tantrums like that sooooooo many times. and all the while God keeps His cool while ushering me to a better quieter place.
    I love how our children teach us so many lessons leading us back to His grace. surely angels sent from the Lord!
    I can totally picture your episode too. oh my goodness!
    glad to have found your blog girl!

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